7 Manners when talking to women

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    7 Manners when talking to women
    Question : jaan jaan pakistan 28, 06،2014
    I have heard a ruling regarding the reasons a male Muslims is
    allowed to speak to a Muslim female and want to know if it is
    correct. It said that there are only five reasons one may talk to
    her:
    1. to ask how her family
    2. for medical purposes
    3. for financial purposes (e.g. in a shop)
    4. to find out about her personality for marriage suitability
    5. to give her dawah (Islamic knowledge).

    Is this correct? If it is, please provide the evidence from where
    the ruling is made (i.e. Daleel).


    Answer :

    Praise be to Allaah.

    The conditions for speaking to a woman to whom one is not related
    are mentioned in the following aayaat (interpretation of the
    meaning):

    ". . . And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them
    from behind a screen; that is purer for your hearts and for their
    hearts . . ." [al-Ahzaab 33:53]
    ". . . then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a
    disease should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable
    manner." [al-Ahzaab 33:32]

    Ibn Katheer, may Allaah have mercy on him, said in his
    Tafseer: "This means that they should not speak softly. Allaah
    commanded them to speak in a concise and decisive manner (i.e., they
    should be serious and brief in their speech, and not be vague or
    talk aimlessly). There should be no possible indication on the face
    that could be taken to indicate any softness in the heart, as the
    Arab women (before Islaam) used to do when speaking to men, by
    making their voices soft like women who are taking care of small
    children, or like prostitutes. Allaah forbade women to do that.

    The phrase "lest he in whose heart is a disease should be moved with
    desire" means lest such a person should hope for immoral deeds,
    indecency or romance. "Speaking in an honourable manner" means
    speaking in a way that does not go against Sharee'ah or offend
    people. Women are encouraged when speaking to men to whom they are
    not related and to mahrams among their in-laws to be somewhat rough
    or abrupt in their speech, without raising the voice, because they
    are commanded to lower their voice.

    Speaking with a woman to whom one is not related (i.e., not mahram)
    should only be for a specific need, such as asking a question,
    buying or selling, asking about the head of the household, and so
    on. Such conversations should be brief, with nothing doubtful in
    either what is said or how it is said.

    The idea of limiting speech with women to the five instances
    mentioned in the question needs to be approached with caution,
    because they could be taken as examples instead of limits. One must
    also adhere to the conditions set out by the Sharee'ah even in
    instances where such conversations are necessary, such as in
    da'wah,
    giving fatwas, buying or selling, etc. And Allaah knows best.
     
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    جزاک اللہ خیرا
     
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    JazakAllah
     

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